Sometimes we get questions from our Contact Us page. When we do, we try to answer the query. Sometimes, the question is broad enough that it warrants a blog post of its own. Such is the case with this query …

“I read your target audience post and it made sense to me. Given our church’s resources, I think that our church’s target audience needs to be what are called ‘Dones,’ that is, people who were once in church but have since quit for whatever reason.”

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Good start, but here’s a serious issue. You’ve chosen such a broad target that it’s not possible to do effective marketing to them, let alone design a worship service for them. When you target everyone, you reach no one – that’s a marketing axiom that is absolute. 

A twenty-something with church experience who’s left the church has almost nothing in common with a sixty-year-old who’s left the church. You won’t “catch” them with the same bait. For instance, the learning style of the twenty-something is highly interactive – they tune out from lectures if they can’t participate/interact on multiple levels. On the other hand, the learning style of the sixty-year-old is image and video driven – but they’ll get pretty uncomfortable if you ask them to interact with each other. Can the two worship together? Yes, but if they’re a first-time guest and you can’t connect/relate with the learning style, it’s unlikely you’ll return. In addition, the twenty-something likely listens to Hip-Hop (it’s the #1 music genre in the US as of 2019) – and the sixty-something definitely doesn’t listen to Hip-Hop. Build a service for the sixty-something, the twenty-something can’t relate … and vice versa. 

And that’s just learning style and music decisions you must make to reach a target audience. Then there’s technology, sermon content, hospitality expectations, dress, schedule factors, children options, marketing mediums, … and that’s just a few of the many options you have to customize to your target audience. 

So, let’s try again with a more refined target … it’s okay to target the Dones and it’s fine to have two target audiences (traditional and non-traditional), but BOTH requires an understanding of a more focused target audience with different strategies for reaching them … because the only thing an 18 year-old Done has in common with an 85 year-old Done is that they’re both Done. You will never catch them both using the same marketing strategies.