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Common Member Retention Challenges + How to Solve Them

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Common Member Retention Challenges + How to Solve Them

As a church leader, you strive to attract and retain church members. However, the average U.S. church only sees a 15 percent return rate. That means for every 100 people who walk through your doors, only 15 will come back. This number drops to just 11 for mainline churches, underscoring how challenging it is for many churches to foster lasting connections in their communities. 

In an increasingly complex cultural landscape, retaining members goes beyond meaningful worship services. It requires a deeper understanding of your members’ unique needs. Today’s churches must be intentional about addressing the barriers that prevent people from staying involved, from generational differences to modern communication challenges.

This guide explores common retention challenges and practical solutions for building a connected, vibrant congregation. As iMIS’s member engagement guide highlights, implementing the right engagement strategies not only helps you grow your congregation but improves financial stability and encourages members to share your church’s mission with others. Let’s tackle some of the retention barriers your church may be facing.

Challenge 1) Lack of Community

Many people attend church seeking a sense of community where they can grow in their faith with others. If they don’t develop meaningful relationships, they may feel isolated, which reduces the likelihood that they’ll go on to become active members of the church.

How To Build A Stronger Community

To overcome this challenge, your church needs to create spaces where members can build meaningful relationships. A strong community encourages members to interact and become part of something bigger.

There are several ways to go about building a strong church family, such as:

  • Building an online community: A church app, social media group, or online community platform can help new and existing members find connections, stay in the loop about your church’s events, and join small groups. Depending on your platform, they can also browse your church member directory to connect with others and participate in discussions.
  • Encouraging small group interactions: Host or encourage group gatherings, like coffee hours, potlucks, and group Bible studies. This can facilitate relationship building in a more relaxed setting, helping new members make friends.
  • Creating inclusive groups: Offer groups tailored to specific stages of life or unique circumstances. This helps members find community with others who understand their experiences. You might create specialized ministries for students, young professionals, seniors, single parents, and people with special needs.

Building a strong church community requires intentionality and thoughtful support systems. By using membership management software, you can track attendance, group involvement, and individual engagement to understand members’ needs and follow up in meaningful ways. With the right tools and strategies, your church can foster a connected environment, inspiring members to grow together in faith.

Challenge 2) Life Transitions and Relocations

Church members often leave due to significant life transitions, such as relocating to a new city, entering a new stage of life like marriage or parenthood, or experiencing changes in work or family responsibilities. These shifts can disrupt their regular attendance, making it challenging for them to stay connected with your church community.

How To Navigate Life Transitions

Establish connections with nearby churches to encourage members to transfer rather than disconnect entirely. While they won’t attend your church any longer, you’ll know they’ve continued their relationship with God.

Leading a hybrid ministry can ease transitions, too. Flexibility in service times and online options (e.g., livestreaming your services) can help people stay involved. Key elements of a hybrid ministry include:

  • Online and Offline Community Experiences: Offer both physical gatherings and virtual community spaces where members can interact, discuss sermons, or ask questions.
  • Service Livestreams: Livestream your services, so people can still attend if they’re traveling, sick, or otherwise unable to make it. Using free platforms like YouTube or Facebook means you won’t have to dip into your church’s budget. Or, check to see if your membership software has virtual event capabilities. Consider offering on-demand videos or uploading recordings online to let people watch your sermons later.

This level of flexibility allows church members to continue their connection with your church or, at the very least, simplify their transition to a new church without sacrificing their relationship with God.

Challenge 3) Ineffective Communication

Inconsistent or unclear communication can make church members feel overlooked and disconnected. Failing to keep them in the loop about events, announcements, or ways they can get involved will lead to disengagement and reduced attendance.

On the other hand, effective communication will keep members informed and strengthen the community you’ve worked so hard to build.

How To Communicate Effectively

The good news is that there are plenty of tried-and-true marketing channels and tactics. It’s up to you to find the right ones that work for your church community. Here are a few elements of your communication strategy to focus on:

  • Multichannel Communication: Using multiple communication channels, such as email, social media, text messages, and service announcements, ensures that all members feel informed and included in ways that resonate with them.
  • A Follow-Up Team: A dedicated team can focus on connecting with newcomers, answering their questions, and inviting them to church events. Personalized follow-ups show care and commitment, helping visitors feel welcome in your community.
  • Member Feedback: Communication is a two-way street. Regularly collecting feedback from new and long-time members allows you to understand their needs and preferences. An engagement management system (EMS) can help streamline this process. An EMS is designed to facilitate two-way communication by collecting and analyzing member feedback, tracking engagement levels, and managing personalized follow-ups.

Your entire team of church leaders can pitch in to help out, too. For instance, have small group leaders create group texts or groups within your online community platform.

To fill in larger gaps in your external communication, consider outsourcing the work to a marketing agency. Getting Attention explains that church marketing agencies specialize in services like social media, web development, Google Ads, video marketing, community events, and direct mail. That way, you can focus on building relationships with your congregation, knowing that your external communication is professionally managed.

Challenge 4) Generational Differences

Different generations often bring unique expectations to their church experience. Younger members may seek modern worship styles, social justice engagement, and online giving options, while older members often value traditional services, familiar hymns, and established church practices. This variation can lead to generational divides if left unaddressed.

How To Bridge The Generational Divide

If possible, offer diverse worship options. For example, host a traditional service with choir and hymns at 9 a.m., followed by a modern service with contemporary music at 10:30 a.m. This variety helps everyone feel comfortable, connected, and inspired to attend.

Consider focusing sermons, workshops, or study groups on topics that resonate with different age groups. For example, younger members might appreciate topics on relationships, mental health, and social issues, while older members may value discussions on caregiving, retirement, and community service.

Above all, listen to what all congregation members have to say. Survey members to understand what they enjoy about your church and how they think your church and its leaders could do better. You might learn that some older members prefer formal attire since they’ve always dressed up for church, while younger members find casual attire more approachable, allowing them to focus on the message rather than formality. Encouraging a “come as you are” policy can help everyone feel comfortable.

Finally, promote intergenerational activities such as church picnics or community service projects like food drives that encourage people of all ages to interact. You could also establish a program where older members mentor younger ones in areas like faith, life skills, or professional development. This helps younger members gain valuable insights and builds meaningful, lasting relationships within your congregation.


If you want to grow your church, you need to create a welcoming environment that meets the diverse needs of your congregation. By intentionally addressing common retention challenges, your church can build a stronger, more connected church family.

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