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The Digital Discipleship Issue: It’s Tough Being a Kid Today

Digital Discipleship Issue

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What’s Up? Apparently, it’s tough to be a kid today … and it’s tougher than it was 20 years ago, at least according to 69% of parents. Here’s the kicker: 65% of them are blaming technology. (Pew Research)

So What? Parents are watching their kids struggle with cyberbullying, inappropriate content, and the relentless pressure of social media. But here’s a reality: this isn’t just a tech issue—it’s a spiritual one.

The Point Is:

Technology Isn’t the Enemy—It’s a Tool. The internet, social media, and smartphones aren’t inherently evil. They’re neutral. It’s how they’re used that matters. The church needs to guide kids (and their parents) in using technology wisely, not fearfully.

Preach About It. When’s the last time you did a sermon series on digital discipleship? We preach about money, relationships, and sin—so why not technology? Pastors, it’s time to equip your congregation with biblical wisdom for the digital age.

Train, Don’t Just Educate. Teaching about the dangers of technology isn’t enough—we need to train families on setting healthy boundaries. Screen addiction recovery groups, parental guidance workshops, and family tech contracts (like everyone giving up cell phones at the family dinner!) should be part of our discipleship toolkit.

Make Discipleship Digital. If we’re serious about reaching the next generation, we have to meet them where they are. That means leveraging apps, social media, and online platforms for spiritual growth. The Bible is already on their phones—are we helping them engage with it (and the plethora of other faith-development apps)?

And …? The church has historically struggled with cultural change when we take a reactive, fear-based approach. Instead of lobbying for stricter tech laws or preaching abstinence from social media (which no one is going to listen to), we need to lean into our role as disciple-makers.

This starts with parents and grandparents. They need the tools to navigate their kids’ digital lives. That means equipping them with resources, accountability systems, and practical strategies to foster healthy tech habits at home. It also means modeling what it looks like to have a balanced, Christ-centered approach to technology. If parents are glued to their own screens, why should we expect kids to be any different?

Action! Start the conversation in your church. Preach a sermon on digital discipleship, host a tech-awareness workshop, or launch a screen recovery group for families. But whatever you do—do something. Because ignoring this problem isn’t working.